The Rhythm of Contemplation

Posted by Spalding Hurst

September 11, 2021

The Rhythm of Contemplation

By Carlette Gentle, SCN

Part of the Toolbox for Prayer series

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Rhythm is known as the repeated patterns of movement or sound while contemplation is known as deep reflective thoughts that form who we are as a person. We each have a rhythm of life and how we contemplate. The rhythm of who we are flows out of us every day. As I stop to contemplate, I have come to realize that my way of contemplation is a rhythm of loving. It is a rhythm of going out and coming in. It is a rhythm of caring that sometimes feels like movements of melodious music.

So, as I stop to contemplate the rhythm of my life, I realize that I am tender. I am an antenna; my ears and heart are on high alert to pick up signals of injustices. I attend to the needs of my neighbors, the poor, the elderly, people seeking assistance and I attend with love and compassion. I work mainly with the elderly poor living on Southside Belize City. I am attentive to their needs trying to help in whatever way possible. And as I go out and attend to my clients, I also know that I have to come in and attend to me as well. As I pause to contemplate these people, these interactions, the faces come back to me as well. It’s that back-and-forth rhythm, I go out and work with them and then come in and reflect on myself and them and hold them in loving prayer as I know they do for me. The back-and-forth rhythm of loving and being loved.

“It’s that back-and-forth rhythm … the back-and-forth rhythm of loving and being loved.”

This contemplative time of slowing down and pausing is needed by my body, mind, and soul. Therefore, when my body calls out, I must create that time and space for it to happen. I know sometimes we might not believe that we need this time, but the body has a way of calling out for its needs. Thus, some days I lay in my hammock contemplating looking to the peaceful sky for assurance that I am not in this ministry alone, that I don’t have to carry the burdens of those I work with alone. And as God knows my thoughts, I believe God sends the beautiful Caribbean wind to engulf my body. I close my eyes and feel the embrace of God in the wind. This is my assurance “I am not in this alone.” After a while, I let go and let God take me where God wills. The beauty of contemplation, I believe, is letting oneself go as God guides our thoughts.


I enjoy cooking and being in the kitchen. As a result, one way I look at contemplation is allowing myself to sit in a combination of seasonings being marinated, with the seasonings of God, and of my experiences.

Taking time for the marinade to happen will assure me that the seasonings are embedded within me. And after that marinade, I then allow the time for a slow simmer in my pot of God’s loving arms. The slow simmer over low heat allows the slow process of thoughts, and the presence and love of God to mingle and create the tender that I am.

Sister Carlette Gentle is a Belizean SCN living in Belize. She has a master’s in clinical social work and a certificate in gerontology. She works with the elderly poor in the Southside of Belize City and is also the Associate vocation director for Belize. In addition, she helps to cook for the homeless. She enjoys cooking, singing, and meeting new people.

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Vincent was an intelligent person, a naturally gifted teacher, and well educated. Vincent was open to and often sought the counsel of others. Through the events of his personal life, his experiences as a priest, his encounters with the poor and
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  1. Rosemarie Kirwan

    It’s Friday morning, and I’m just now getting to the reading of your reflections. I have seen this for myself in your life and in your care for others. May you continue to grow in the depth of your relationships and in your awareness of how much you can assure and inspire others.

  2. Martha Walsh SCN

    Although my sea is the Atlantic I join you in experiencing the calm or turbulent sea washing over me as the wind, whether gale or zephyr embraces body and spirit. With enlightenment from the sun I recall this phrase from way back in my novitiate days. “The heart of the beginner is as the sea when it surges” We are all beginners. Thanks for your thoughts and especially the hammock picture! Love, Martha

  3. Rita Davis, SCN

    Collette, so dear to my soul! Thank you for being sooooo talented, kind and fun, and prayerful!
    Love you.

  4. Sr. Ann Moyalan scn

    Such a wonderful way of blending life, prayer & ministry. I found your life inspiring & life giving . May Jesus bless you & all those whom you minister.

  5. Michelle

    I love your insights and inspired imagery! Very Vincentian and a very healthy rhythm! Thanks for contributing to our toolbox for prayer!

  6. Linda Soltis

    How insightful your comments, and how beautifully written. Thank you.

  7. Angie Shaughnessy SCN

    Dear Carlette, you have “nailed” the rhythm of contemplation. You are so wise, and you share that wisdom with humility, simplicity and charity. You are a true daughter of Catherine. You live the SCN charism.
    I am blessed to call you my sister.

  8. Maria Brocato

    Our dear Carlette, dearest thanks for this beautiful reflection. May God keep you growing in those loving Divine arms!


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